Call Me Dr. Phil, I get a kick sometime observing interracial relationships, lol
Well I’m at it again, tickling feathers with my outlandish, enlightening, but true views. I get a kick sometimes just sitting back and observing interracial relationships. NOT at the relationship, but the reaction of people that are also observing and reacting to the relationship. People begin to stare, and squirm in their seats, eyes are turned down, and noses up. I can see and hear the smirks, the heads shake, and it’s hilarious. OK, black guy dates white girl. Black girl dates white guy. Spanish, Chinese, Celebrity, Entertainer, we’ve all seen it many times before, and sometimes unconsciously if we’re not THINKING, we would be quick to judge. I’ve heard it many times before, “They get a little money, and go running to the other girl outside their race, SELLOUT.” But on the other hand, this same individual will say, “Praise God, God is good, all the time.” Now I’m not a biblical scholar, but to me, one case is judgmental, ignorant, and the other you’re stating you’re a spiritual person??? Seems to be a little contradiction in these statements, because if your truly a spiritual individual and believe in a higher power, you will know and understand, we are all created equally.
We say white and blacks, but as I look at my white shirt, and my black card, the people around me do not match either the black or white items, so in essence we are all colored folks. If you’re a spiritual individual or study by science, you should know we are all physically created equally in the form of spirit or energy, but our upbringing, inherited daily habits and environment begin to shape up miles apart thus making us drastically different. We are all a product of our environment. If you were raised in a different nation, you would be in a different environment, thus what you believe, and what you learn would have ultimately led you to an entirely different lifestyle, thinking and results. Based on how you’ve been raised and programmed you were developed in a culture of certain standards, beliefs and expectations. What you eat, drink, your religion, family values, and daily habits, and you will attract and be comfortable of like minded people with similar habits and beliefs, black or white. Your way is neither right nor wrong, it’s just DIFFERENT. It’s a pre-programmed culture set by someone in your family tree.
Now why do people date outside their race? Believe it or not it has nothing to do with color. Read that again, it has nothing to do with color. We are all beautiful and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you look at the income earning scale from $10,000 to $1,000,000 annually, and next to this income scale list individual beliefs, values, and interest in life is where you will find the answer WHY. Individuals on a lower income scale THINK differently than someone on a higher scale. You may sometimes notice, couples after a period of time, begin to look alike. That’s not a coincidence, they have similar habits and beliefs which also shape there thinking and physical results. So what people must realize is that when an individual begins to increase his earnings, his mind has already begun to change. His THINKING has been expanded, or it would not be possible to increase his earning potential. This is not a “SELLOUT”. At this point, he no longer has an interest in eating at McDonald’s, hanging out in the local pub. He has been introduced and now enjoys maybe a nice steak house with an expensive bottle of wine. The mindset and THINKING has changed, and now he will be attracted to like-minded individuals. You will only attract what is in harmony with yourself. Drug dealers, politicians, athletes and bums are always dating each other, not because of beauty, but because of the harmony they share. So the next time before you judge, understand it’s not personal. We’re all created equally. Maybe consider raising your level of THINKING if your seeking a higher level of relationship, or you can keep it real by keeping it the same, just don’t expect different results.
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